It is normal for
a brother to have a fight with small things. So far the love was
understandable. But after today's fight, her children changed their room, while
the sweetness that dissolves in relationships in the early childhood helps grow
and stay together. Thinking about this thing, today, she has made a decision
that she will now change her role in the fight of her children. She wants to
completely eliminate the small fights between the children.
Often parents are
forced to referee in children's fights. This makes them feel very tense too.
Many of his energy ends in this work, so differently. Even after this, it comes
to mind that our image is not getting worse in front of children. It all falls
into the mind as a very bad experience. If children want to get rid of this
mutual dispute, first of all, remove this matter from the mind what the
children will think.
Your job is to
teach children the right thing and decide that you have to teach them the right
way. Instead of thinking of the impact on children, start trying to eliminate
this problem related to them. Some things can help you with this:
{1} Write one another's specialty
Ask your children to write each other's specialties on a
paper. When a child knows how well the other is thinking about it then he will
surely remove the wrong things about him. Such activities will motivate
children to support their children in every situation. With such an effort, the
foundation of relationship between brother and sister will be strengthened only
from their childhood.
{2} Look, she helps you
When children tell your brother or sister the wrong way, listen to them openly, but they must definitely explain how their brother or sister has helped them, when and how much they have helped. Like many times older siblings help their younger brothers and sisters in the homework. Or play with them. Basically you have to teach your children that none of them will be able to live without each other. It is therefore better that they should be happy together, not by fighting.
{3} Do not discriminate
Many times parents expect older children to be silent. They
say, 'You are big, you should have thought.' This method is absolutely wrong.
The child will have to explain and behave according to his age and need. That
is big, but you have to keep in mind that this age is too much.
{4} When the fight is not confused
This happens many times, when children do not have the
feudal integrity. Children are shouting at each other. None of the two is ready
to listen to you. If you do not calm down on your scolding or screaming, then
both of them should be removed from each other's eyes for a while.
Send both children
out to play. When their attention and energy begin to become more focused then
they will forget about mutual fighting immediately. It is possible that if a
third child starts to bother them, then they both become teams and compete with
them. By putting the child's attention somewhere else in the fight, you can
restrain their quarrel.
{5} Think about finishing the fight
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