5 Best way to deal with sibling rivalry

It is normal for a brother to have a fight with small things. So far the love was understandable. But after today's fight, her children changed their room, while the sweetness that dissolves in relationships in the early childhood helps grow and stay together. Thinking about this thing, today, she has made a decision that she will now change her role in the fight of her children. She wants to completely eliminate the small fights between the children.

Often parents are forced to referee in children's fights. This makes them feel very tense too. Many of his energy ends in this work, so differently. Even after this, it comes to mind that our image is not getting worse in front of children. It all falls into the mind as a very bad experience. If children want to get rid of this mutual dispute, first of all, remove this matter from the mind what the children will think.

Your job is to teach children the right thing and decide that you have to teach them the right way. Instead of thinking of the impact on children, start trying to eliminate this problem related to them. Some things can help you with this:

{1} Write one another's specialty

 Ask your children to write each other's specialties on a paper. When a child knows how well the other is thinking about it then he will surely remove the wrong things about him. Such activities will motivate children to support their children in every situation. With such an effort, the foundation of relationship between brother and sister will be strengthened only from their childhood.

{2} Look, she helps you

When children tell your brother or sister the wrong way, listen to them openly, but they must definitely explain how their brother or sister has helped them, when and how much they have helped. Like many times older siblings help their younger brothers and sisters in the homework. Or play with them. Basically you have to teach your children that none of them will be able to live without each other. It is therefore better that they should be happy together, not by fighting.

{3} Do not discriminate

 Many times parents expect older children to be silent. They say, 'You are big, you should have thought.' This method is absolutely wrong. The child will have to explain and behave according to his age and need. That is big, but you have to keep in mind that this age is too much.

{4} When the fight is not confused

 This happens many times, when children do not have the feudal integrity. Children are shouting at each other. None of the two is ready to listen to you. If you do not calm down on your scolding or screaming, then both of them should be removed from each other's eyes for a while.

 Send both children out to play. When their attention and energy begin to become more focused then they will forget about mutual fighting immediately. It is possible that if a third child starts to bother them, then they both become teams and compete with them. By putting the child's attention somewhere else in the fight, you can restrain their quarrel.

{5} Think about finishing the fight

 It is important to also tell the children that there is no benefit to increasing the quarrel, but there are many advantages to ending the fight. Putting your mind in front of peace can solve a problem, not screaming and screaming. Explain to them that what they do not like each other, let them know clearly. If you do not do this, you will be sitting in your mind and you can become a cause for hindering.

                                                        (Based on conversation with psychiatrist Dr. Smita Shrivastav)

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